You're Playing a Character. And You're Tired of the Role.

Leadership coaching for professionals who built the life they thought they wanted,and feel nothing.

Joudie Weekes

Something's Off. You Feel It.

You’re tired in a way sleep doesn’t fix.

You look at your calendar and see success. You look in the mirror and see someone you barely recognize.

You’ve done everything right. Built the career. Earned the respect. Checked the boxes.

But somewhere along the way, you started drifting. Acting out of obligation instead of intention. Performing a version of yourself that used to fit, but doesn’t anymore.

You’re not broken. You’re misaligned.

And no amount of productivity hacks, cold plunges, or motivational podcasts will fix that.

The Problem Isn't Discipline. It's Identity.

Searching for truth

When your identity is unclear, your behavior drifts.

You are a builder

When your standards aren't defined, they bend under pressure.

The Problem Isn't Motivation

When you rely on motivation, you fail when it fades.

The fix isn’t trying harder. It’s realigning who you are with how you show up.

That’s the work I do.

How Leader of One Works:

Phase 1: Identity Realignment
 Identify where misalignment exists. Get clear on who you are.

Phase 2: Ownership and Integrity
 Close integrity gaps. One standard, all roles.

Phase 3: Disciplined Self-Leadership
Install discipline through systems aligned with identity.

Phase 4: Integration
 Stabilize and maintain what you’ve built.

I’m a leadership coach who helps successful professionals stop drifting and start leading themselves. I have a BS in Organizational Leadership. Former Conversational Solutions Lead at Fortune 500 companies.
Creator of the Leader of One framework.

I created Leader of One because I know what misalignment feels like. I spent years building a career that looked right but felt wrong, managing different versions of myself depending on who was in the room.

When I finally did the work to get clear on my identity and build systems to maintain it, everything changed.

Now I help others do the same.

Most men are stuck between three leadership identities:

The Compromised Leader – Different principles in different rooms
The Aware Leader – You see the pattern, you’re done with excuses
The Disciplined Leader – You govern yourself through principles, not emotion

This is for the Aware Leader ready to become Disciplined.

This Is For You If:

You’re still the Compromised Leader and not ready to admit it:

  • You’re successful on paper but feel hollow inside
  • You show up differently depending on who’s watching
  • You have standards you believe in but don’t enforce
  • You’re tired of being reactive instead of intentional
  • You want structure and accountability, not motivation and hype

Not For You If:

  • You want quick fixes
  • You’re looking for someone to validate excuses
  • You’re not ready to look honestly at your patterns

Ready to Stop Drifting?

Leadership failure doesn’t start with incompetence. It starts with misalignment.

If you ignore this for another year, the gap widens. You compromise more. Eventually something breaks.

Or you stop now. Close the gap. Align.